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I have a Samsung Frame TV, and today an artwork rotated onto the screen that simply read: Love Wins . And I found myself pausing—not admiring, not rejecting—just asking a quiet but honest question: Does it? It should . It would be ideal. It’s what many of us were taught. It’s what we were told to expect if we “did the right thing,” stayed kind, stayed open, stayed loving. But our lived reality doesn’t always match what should  be—nor what we were taught to expect. My clients

This shit is hard. Really hard. And I don’t want to sugarcoat it — especially not during Black History Month , when we honor the resilience, strength, and brilliance of the women who came before us. Women who survived unimaginable brutality, held whole families together, built schools, organized movements, raised communities, and still  passed down wisdom. They understood community — not as a luxury, but as l ife support. And they practiced sisterhood  long before the word wa